Abraham Lincoln once said; “Most people are about as happy as they make up their mind to be”; how true is this. Within the deeper layer of the meaning of this line we realize that it is totally reality based and an authentic statement. Unhappiness is a state of being alone, sad or joyless. Some people are born with happiness in their genes – in that case, such people do not require much effort to become happy. They just simply find happiness in every little thing around them. They don’t need a particular reason to become happy or to smile. But, there are people who have to struggle a lot to become happy. The liquid of happiness is rarely found in their lives. Such people find it difficult to cherish even the happiest moments of their life. They are the ones who suffer from the feeling of unhappiness most of the time. Hence, unhappiness is a miserable state that can happen to anyone. It is not a controllable feeling because if God will give us the choice to choose between happiness and unhappiness, then obviously everyone would go for happiness, though exceptions are always there. However, there are so many reasons for becoming unhappy and joyless. And it’s quite normal though, because each one of us has to face certain challenging situation in our life which makes us bit down low and unhappy. However, here we need to understand the difference between a state of being unhappy staying in a ...

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